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I got the idea for this new blog at the end of the week of New Wine, a Christian festival in Somerset, in August 2011. You might guess from my profile that, although not entirely house-bound, I don't very often get out, and it occurred to me that I might try to create a blog to encourage in our faith people like me whose lives are limited in one way or another. I'm hoping that readers will feel able to contribute their own positive ideas. I'm not sure how it will work, but here goes...!
Teach me, my God and King, in all things Thee to see...
A man that looks on glass,
On it may stay his eye,
Or, if he pleaseth, through it pass
And then the heaven espy.

George Herbert (1593-1633)

Saturday 20 July 2013

The uses of adversity

Outside the theatre
A week ago, Jane and I drove to Stratford to see the RSC production of As You Like it, to celebrate our wedding anniversary. It was, you'll recall, one of the glorious clear sunny days we've been enjoying. We were very grateful for the air-conditioning in our car!

The production was great fun - once the men had got over mistaking shouting for emphasis and Jaques had stopped gabbling (I must be getting old and hard of hearing!). In my view, it shouldn't be necessary to have mugged up on a Shakespeare play to understand the meaning. Really good actors are able to bring Shakespearean English to life even for contemporary audiences. Fortunately the central characters achieved just that, most importantly Rosalind, the most major female role in Shakespeare (25% of lines), played by Pippa Nixon.
Rosalind and Orlando finally united (the "hippy" Duke just behind Orlando) - RSC photo

The plot involves an usurping duke and a selfish older brother driving various of their relatives into exile in the Forest of Arden (I assume where the paté comes from). In his first speech the ousted Duke, Senior, portrayed in this production presiding over something of a hippy-style commune and himself a bit like an aging rock star, says:
"Here feel we but the penalty of Adam,
The seasons' difference, as the icy fang

And churlish chiding of the winter's wind,
Which, when it bites and blows upon my body,
Even till I shrink with cold, I smile and say
'This is no flattery: these are counsellors
That feelingly persuade me what I am.'
Sweet are the uses of adversity,
Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in his head;
And this our life exempt from public haunt
Finds tongues in trees, books in the running brooks,
Sermons in stones and good in every thing.
I would not change it." 


I was struck by the expression, "Sweet are the uses of adversity". Our instinct is to run from adversity, to avoid pain. And yet there is something precious to be found in it. Exiled from all that is "civilised", what we might regard as the normal comforts of life, the Duke finds "good in every thing". This is poetry of course which can't be paraphrased - but, for example, the trees might speak of the beauty in each season of life and the miracle of rebirth, the brooks might be illustrating the infinite diversity and the wonderful interconnectedness of creation, and the stones teach that hardship is an integral part of existence; without it life would be bland.
Rosalind disguised as the young man, Ganymede - RSC photo
Pippa Nixon's performance was outstanding, with the ambiguities and tensions of the role, beginning and ending as the lively Rosalind and in between disguised as Ganymede, at once strong and vulnerable. It's a supremely demanding part. I suppose we were focused on her as she once came to a birthday barbecue in our garden here; so we were pleased to be able to congratulate her at the end. A great way to celebrate our marriage - thanks, Pippa and the RSC!

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Belated Happy Anniversary to Jane and yourself Michael. How many years do you celebrate?
Your blog commentary arriving today was special for me. I had been in something of a dark place and had the temerity to ask for a sign that I was loved! Then I read those lovely words “Sweet are the uses of adversity,
Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in his head;”
And your helpful comments about them Michael.
. Our PP had asked me what he could give to my husband as a thank-you for all the work he has done to help him recently. I had suggested a bottle of wine and went to look at the label of the one he had just finished last night. Round the neck of the bottle was a label with the word ‘joyful’ written all the way round.
Thank-you Michael for your commentary on the words from the Play which I found really helpful, and thank-you Lord for the words on the bottle.

Unknown said...

Michael, Congratulations on your anniversary. May I ask with Mrs. Schroder, "How many years?" (And by the way dear sister, how blessed that you were "Surprised by Joy".) My wife Barbara and I celebrated our forty-fourth in June. Over those years we have learned a great deal more of Christ through pain than through pleasure. A man is no masochist who finds true Joy in his pain. Bill Wilson : 2 Corinthians 12:9

Michael Wenham said...

Thank you! 39 years and much joy on the way.

I'm not very good at rejoicing in my weakness, though there are many sunny times - and I'm thankful for every year of our marriage.

Unknown said...

Nor am I, Michael; nor am I, my brother. We are novices at best who by nature rage against our pain and mourn our weakness. But we are fellow learners, which drew me to your blog. The Westminster Shorter Catechism, I recall, asks in its first question, “What is the chief end of man?” The answer is “To glorify God and enjoy Him forever.” While He gives us tokens of love and joy along the way like Mrs. Schroder’s wine, like your anniversary Shakespeare play, or like our wonderful spouses, God and He alone would be, and will be, our ultimate and eternal Joy. True Joy, a fruit of the Holy Spirit, I find is a grace given day by day in hardship as we behold increasingly its ultimate Object.
Thanks for making me think.
Bill James 1:2-4

Anonymous said...

Thank-you both also for making me think.
We shall reach 45 years this October. Whilst there have been many ups and downs I think marriage is like wine, the older and more mature it gets, the better it is! ( and I do not drink!!)
At school, centuries ago, our Penny Catechism reflected your Westminster Shorter Catechism."Why did God make you" "God made me to know Him, love Him and serve Him in this world and to be happy with him forever in the next"
I can also now recall with humour, though not at the time, being asked this by the very stern faced teacher who instilled rather more fear than love.!!
Thank-you both again.

Unknown said...

You are right about a good marriage. They improve with age like a good wine or whiskey (and I do drink. Pleasure I picked up in the Navy ;-))

Michael Wenham said...

Your catechisms came to mind when I read a comment from a friend of mine today wrote about her aunt who's just died: "my aunty has passed away suddenly after a long long battle with MS which she bore with great courage and acceptance, without complaint and with a strong sense of God's closeness to her at all times! Wonderful example she has always shown!... So Rest In Peace aunty.... you have truly deserved your eternal reward and all the joys that heaven holds! Your suffering is over and... you have left us a beautiful legacy of how to accept our cross". I don't think she means deserved in the sense of earned her salvation, but in the sense of, "Well done, good and faithful servant."

Anonymous said...

http://www.proecclesia.com/penny%20catechism/